【人与人沟通的五大语言艺术】

【人与人沟通的五门语言艺术】

1. 转述的语言艺术：用慈悲心聆听，然后转述对方的意思，确保自己理解正确。[Listen with your heart. （Your heart is the third ear.） Then, paraphrase what others say in order to ensure that you understand correctly.]

2.  澄清的语言艺术：用冷静的心审视，然后根据“转述”的内容，提出自己的困惑，请对方进一步说明。[See with your mind. (Your mind is the third eye.) Then, raise clarifying questions to clear doubts on others' views.]

3. 中介的语言艺术：用自由的心探索，善用苏格拉底“产婆术”来帮助对方思考，形成自律、自主、自评的能力。 [Explore with your will. (Your will is born free.) Then, raise mediation questions to facilitate others' thinking. ]

4. 不批评的回应艺术：用清明的心回应，不加评论和情绪地如实回应，帮助对方看到自己。[Response with a mind with purity and clarity so as to allow others to see themselves. Non-judgmental responses.]

5. 给予建议的语言艺术：用善巧的心互动，提供对方契机契理的建议。[Suggest with an artful heart-mind so as to serve others' learning needs. Need to take into considerations of readiness and willingness to learn. ]