2. 听之以心:理性层次的谛听,同理心是第三只耳朵。这是“地籁”层次的隐含信息的沟通交流。
3. 听之以气:悟性层次的谛听,反闻闻自性。这是“天籁”层次的完整信息的深度沟通交流。
Deep Listening:
1. Level 1–Listening with your ears with full attention. “I am all ears.”
2. Level 2: Empathetic Listening. I.e. listening with your heart. “I am here for you.”
3. Level 3: Listen with your soul! “I am you and you are me. We are one.”
在《人间世》篇解释“心斋”时,庄子有“三听”之论:“若一志,无听之以耳而听之以心,无听之以心而听之以气。听止于耳,心止于符。气也者,虚而待物者也。唯道集虚,虚者,心斋也。”
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