Default settings of the mind is the Growth Mindset

1. The default settings of our minds is actually the Growth Mindset.

2. Whenever we are trapped in conflicts with others, we can, should and must reboost our minds immediately so as to connect to the Growth Mindset and reslove the conflects peacefully in a win-win manner.

3. To keeep rebooting our minds to get rid of our Fixed Mindsets is just a temporary way,  not definitely not the desirable way to deal with this internal problem of our lives.

4. To get rid of the "mind hang" problem cased by our Fixed Mindset effectively and permenantly, we need to estabilish the connectivity to the life energy of empathy and unconditional love from the bottom of our heart.