三种关系：忠、恕、仁 【三个境界的我】

1. 忠道：人与自己的关系 get connected deeply with oneself through Mind-In-Action (MIA: Mindfulness)  and attained the level of "true self" with no attachment to the worldly affairs by breaking through the self-centreness. 【无我相、无我见：“行动中的真我”，突破“自我中心”（我执）的我；阿罗汉/  君子的境界】

2. 恕道：人与人的关系 get connected deeply with people through Love-In-Action (LIA: Heartfulness)  and attained the level of "true love" with zero emotional garbage by breaking through the social-centreness. 【无人相、无众生相；无人见、无众生见：“行动中的真爱”，突破“他人中心”（情执）的我；菩萨/ 贤人的境界】

3. 仁道：人与上天的关系 get connected deeply with the ultimate dimension of life (Kingdom of God) through Soul-In-Action (SIA: Soulfulness) and attained the level of "the supreme reality" by breaking through the knowledge-centreness. 【无寿者相、无寿者见：“行动者的佛陀/孔子”，突破“知识中心”（法执）的我；佛陀/ 圣人的境界】